With razor sharp prose, the author dissects the vulnerability and cruelty of human relations. When a society is content to find excuses for poor mothering – even inventing wounds to justify it – perhaps the implication is that we just aren’t ready to see women in their full range of possibilities. The author believes we must bid farewell to this formula if we are to truly understand gender inequality and the subtle influences that inform gender. The author is attempting to contemplate a world that is far from perfect, in which there will always be people we cannot understand, and questions that are difficult to answer. To the author, the true oppression of women is any image of women, or motherhood, that flattens out our individual differences.